Today I was doing some gardening and Samantha was helping. She helped head the petunias and I gave her a large flower stem that had broken off in the wind last night. She collected them in her umbrella and I heard her say something about making hats for her dolls. I have to fess, I wasn’t paying attention. I was weeding and planting and in a hurry to get it done before the girls lost patience or it started raining.
We finished and I ushered everyone inside. Samantha proceeded to dump her collection, flowers, petals, dandelion fluff, and some dirt, on the couch. I believe the exact words that came out of my mouth were, “AAACCKK! No, no, no! We don’t dump junk on the couch!”
Samantha’s face dropped and she went to her room and closed the door. I cleaned up the mess and then went to find her. She was in her closet stuffed behind the stackable shelves we have in there. She looked at me with sad puppy eyes. All I could think to say was, “Sorry”.
She came out and we hugged. I told her I forgot she wanted to make hats for her dolls. We’re going out after lunch for some roses to put in a vase.
Sometimes we all make mistakes. I think it’s important for our kids to know that, not to think Mommy and Daddy are infallible. I also feel it’s important to model how to fix a mistake, and to acknowledge my girls’ feelings . It’s really an important life lesson I hope to impart on my kids. I just wish I didn’t have to make mistakes and hurt their feelings to teach it.
What mistakes have you apologized to your kids for?